Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The Zen of Confidence

I have been following a korean pop idol. I don't usually behave like this because I used to believe that all idols are just a bunch of teenage premadonnas who know how to sing and dance.

But there is one particular male idol that caught my attention. He is not manly in any way and behaves like a gay person. But one thing that surprised me was that he has confidence. Whatever he does, be it wacky funny, gay acting or dancing, he makes it look that he is not pretending to be anybody. Not trying to be someone else. Or not trying to fit in what an idol should be - sexy, manly man. And because of that, I'm sold.

He has this 100 rules of life that he posted in a wall. That he tries to follow and what he thinks should be to guide him to be a perfect person. There is one particular rule in this that caught my attention and that all men should strive hard for.

Instead of trying to be the best, to do one's best.
To be confident that you are the best, yet be humble.
To treat women like rocks (do not be seduced by their beauty)
To be careful with women that likes men. And avoid these types of women.

I only posted 4 of my favorites and I think every man should remember. Or perhaps we should also make a 100 rules of life for us to live by.

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