First Step to Being Attractive to Women

I must admit that I used to believe that being yourself is the best way to attract a hot lover. My mom always told me that its what inside that matters. Moms knows best, why would she lie to me? Eventhough I cultivated my inner self, learning books, being nice, girls still are not attracted to me. And it seems to made them flee at first sight.

I misinterpreted my mom. It is what inside that counts. But also, the packaging matters. And people are willing to pay for a premium if they see a good looking package. A good example is an apple computer. I used to be a windows guy. Then turned linux because of its stability. I can't stand windows crashing every 5 minutes. Then when a friend showed me a mac, i fell inlove with it. Its still linux "inside" but the packaging is beautiful. And costs a lot more than any ordinary computer. But still people are willing to pay for a high premium because of that. I know, because I bought a mac and now I'm broke.

I think that principle translates to attracting women. How you look and how you present yourself could mean the different between "Hi, you have good style" to "Hi, I don't talk to engineers".

Because of that, I bid farewell to my long hair and adopted a buzz cut. While crying, I also bought a new watch as an accessory and visited the dentist to fix my teeth. I have braces now and it sucks. But I'm all for self improvement and hot women so I don't care much about the pain. I don't eat much junk foods now because my braces hurt. And this in turn, turned my zit and pimple infested face into a clean, young looking, pimple free and celebrity looking face. Ok, I lied about the celebrity looking part. And I asked my sister what kind of products I can use for my face to make it better. I also stopped masturbating and stopped watching porn.

I feel better now. And I think that's more important than trying to attract women. Feeling good about yourself makes people feel comfortable being with you. I would like to think my quest is over. But there's still a lot of things to learn to be a ladies man. And I still don't see women lining up on my door.