Starting to Get the Hang of It... I think...

I think I'm starting to get the hang of it. Could you believe it, I made an online dating profile. Messaged 3 gorgeous girls and got 2 numbers from them. The other one, didn't replied. I think that being genuinely interested and having conversation skills that has no ego or the attitude of  trying to prove yourself all the time works.

The problem now I think for me is when the girl doesn't want your statement of intent. Now, a guru said that a girl will accept or not accept your statement of intent. But the outcome if she doesn't accept it is based on some factors 1. She doesn't like you. 2. She's not attracted to you yet. 3. She is not sure about what she feel about you. Its either the statement of intent came too early or too late and she's attracted to someone else i.e. the boyfriend. Its always the boyfriend doesn't it?

If you want the girl to accept your statement of intent, you have to create "desire". Desire, from what I understand from the gurus, is to make her think of you all the time, together with her doing sensual things. For example, how romance novels will write a love making scene. This creates desire. Desire is what turns into a date. Desire is what turns woman on. And desire is also equals to romance. For you, that's sex. And for me, that's a happy nerd.

I think ultimately, girl ranks guys according to sexuality. James Bond comes first on the list. Those high class, rich, savvy and classy guys that you'll never ever be. Second comes the Jackasses, those that you just want to punch the faces of. But of course you can't because they'll fight back. And since you're still a lot more rank below, you might as well not. That's also the reason why she'll sleep with him more than you. The next are the Nice Guys. Those that does everything for the girl. A little chivalry-istic yet they are much like a tool. They don't converse well. They put women on pedestal and demands love because they made every effort to make a woman happy. Turns out, women doesn't like them until they get older. Someone they can settle down with and raise her 10 kids from Jackass guy over there. And lastly, The Nerds, we are the lowest form of men. Guys who can't even stare a woman in the eye. Or will choose their math homework than to have sex with a girl. But come on, people change right? Sometimes, we get to realize that women are beautiful creatures. They are just gorgeous to look at. It makes you feel good touching them. Makes your blood boil just looking at them. And it is someone satisfying when they smile and bloom like a flower because of you. I think that feeling is fantastic. Yet the feeling can instantly turn into deep shit if the women misbehave on you.

Always remember to not be emotionally attached to a woman. Not unless you are married or in a serious relationship in which both of you agreed. Its a wonderful feeling to be in love. What makes it best is to be in love to the right person where your love and respect are being reciprocated with the same amount. Eventhough I am advising you as such. I am but vulnerable and easily manipulated when it comes to love. I am easily attached to a girl and hope to learn from any Cassanova on how to handle such emotions.